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She had access to a world I didn’t, and she had done all the things I hadn’t done yet,” he said.
Now he’s in his mid 40s, and married with a kid, and remembers that relationship as critical to making him the man he is now.
So, if you’re 35 and dating a 37 year old, yeah, not a cougar.
“She picked the restaurants, paid for things, took me places.
In my case, I find I more readily connect with older men because we are usually at similar places in our lives (and closer aligned from a maturity standpoint) — but of course, this has never been a steadfast rule, or something I feel I need to explain or justify.
I treat every potential relationship with an open perspective and without a pre-determined script running through my mind that is associated (unfairly) with their age, before I get to know them.
Given that we didn’t suckle at that digital teat so early on like Millennials, we’re not going to live and die by whether we change our relationship status. Get this: I’m not even FB friends with the guy I’m currently seeing. I did get a glimpse of his page when he left it open one day, and I did take a gander at his ex, but I found it so stressful that I closed out of it immediately. If she’s gotten this far on her own, regardless of whatever relationships are behind her, she’s been through enough ups and downs to know she can handle just about anything.
And she knows she won’t fall into a million pieces if she doesn’t have a boyfriend. And whereas younger women are putting you through the paces to see if you can provide her with a life, an identity, and a future, an older woman already knows who she is and what she wants to do—she’d just love someone to share it with.